So summer is approaching, which means time to get all of my final wedding plans completed. My goal for summer is to complete the seating chart, place cards, menus/programs, and pretty much anything wedding related including the Bridal Shower and Bachelorette party.
Some of this would be easier to do if I had help from other people who I felt were there to support me. I don't think I will be able to keep my goal of stressfree wedding planning as I have been more stressed that I would like. Recently I spoke my mind and now I doubt that I have a support system at all. I am getting some help from a few people but I don't want to open up completely to them and feel like a burden. One thing I am looking forward to is a joint bachelor/bachelorette party.
I'm still trying to figure out how to have everything I want and keep within my budget. I want beautiful flowers and the wedding on my dreams. I want to relax and just enjoy myself. I want to have someone else finish out the planning so that I can be wowed by what is happening on my actual wedding day. I want a day that is elegantly simple, maybe a little understated but you don't notice anything truly missing. Right now the dreams I have for my wedding day are soooo far from reality. I would love to have a ton of flowers and a day that felt really romantic. If I lived somewhere else I would try to get married in a garden and have a tented reception with fabric draped walls, soft lighting, long tabled with floral and candle center places, Family style dining and all night dancing. A girl can dream... if it was a fairy tale it'd all come true with a wish (believe me, I've tried, it ain't gonna happen).
There is still so much to do: alterations, BMs dresses, flowers, Music, paying off vendors, food tasting, everything for the reception and anything else that I forgot to think about.
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